As moderator KnowsPenisesWell explains, the whole subreddit - neurotic size comparisons and all - is meant to inform rather than to stoke insecurity. “All of those things create cultural pressure on men.”īut while r/MeasuredPornstars might appear to play into these same size-based standards, it was created to have the opposite effect on users. After all, in porn “we constantly get messages that bigger is better and that penis size is the measure of manhood,” Justin Lehmiller, a research fellow at the Kinsey Institute, told Cosmopolitan in 2019. The unattainably high standards of physical attraction in society greatly contribute to body dysmorphic disorder, so it’s no surprise that watching porn - most of which upholds these standards with irritating, pervasive stringency - can help spur PDD. So they’re stuck in this state of self-loathing thinking they’re not good enough.” “This is problematic because the men that fixate on this tend to think that their sexual/love life would be better if they had a bigger penis. “I often see men post their penis on various subreddits or other sites seeking validation that their penis is ‘big’ or ‘good enough,’” bicuriousguy12, who frequently comments in r/MassiveCock, as well as the size-centric r/CockCompare and r/ThickDick, writes via email. Perhaps Jose’s admitted insecurities, though, are missing the, um, bigger picture. “I’m so close to my goal, which is eight inches, and if I’m able to get to that, I’ll be pretty happy,” Jose says. And though he found his penis to be longer than some pornstars like Lawless - or only an inch or so shorter than many others - he still isn’t satisfied with what he jams into his shorts. Proportionally, that didn’t add up in his mind, so he took to r/MeasuredPornstars to find out what the famously big guys are packing. “It made me kind of insecure,” Jose says.īut another part of him didn’t believe her claim either, because he’d seen a picture of her ex and he was only about 5-foot-4 and skinny. Jose couldn’t help but ask if her ex’s dick was bigger than his. Then, last July, his girlfriend at the time admitted to cheating on him with an ex of hers. “I was, like, ‘What? No fuckin’ way,’” Jose says. He says she teasingly told him, “I’ve seen bigger,” and when he asked how that could have been since she was a virgin prior to their relationship, she told him that she’d once witnessed a guy measure his penis that turned out to be 10 inches. Some years ago, while dating a woman who chose him as her first sexual partner, Jose somehow wound up discussing his size with her. Jose blames two former girlfriends for his penile preoccupation. “I already played with my dick for most of my life, it’s just doing it a little bit different now.” “It’s pretty much like working out, but instead of working out your muscles, I’m working out my dick,” Jose says. Under hot water, he tugs at himself “side-to-side,” “downward” and “upward.” “I’m doing stretches in the shower,” he says.
He also consults PEGym, which has a slew of tutorials for men looking to lengthen their dicks, boost girth, last longer during sex and other related topics. In pursuit of his goal, he also visits subreddits that cover genital pumping techniques and machinery - r/Pumping, mostly - and compares his cock to those of other users on r/PenisMeasured. A related topic of debate is the appropriate spot to place a measuring stick when collecting data (above the rod or along the side), with users calling out advantageously angled rulers. Some cut and paste everyday items found elsewhere in a pornstar’s nude next to their dicks for relative measurements. Other r/MeasuredPornstars posts contain still shots of agape female scene partners holding tape measures to the oversized dicks they’re about to navigate. This, the commenters agree, makes him “small” for a porn star. Though Lawless’ head peaks past one end of the device, its other is slightly buried into his pelvis, so it appears he’s registering roughly seven inches. In the comments section, one user with dubious authority writes that the speaker is 7.1 inches long.
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